Mediumship Works Like This…..

If you are reading this because you are waiting with bated breath for me to explain the physics behind contacting the deceased, well, you had best find another blog on that topic because this one ain’t it! LOL! This is instead about misconceptions the general public may have about how folks like myself converse with the “dead” people and animals. 

Misconception #1

Some folks think connecting to the deceased is just like calling them on the phone—enter the correct information (their name) with the intent to reach them, and voila! There they are, and the conversation is off and running! Wellll, sometimes it may be that way, or not. Some spirits communicate directly in plain language into the left side of my head, and they show up quickly and eagerly. They are clear as a bell and make my job a breeze. Oh, if only it were that way every session! But discerning the messages and information about themselves that spirits sometimes provide is about like trying to pull hen’s teeth.

These are some common things that throw a big old monkey wrench right into the middle of it all:

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Why Does My Cat Get the “Poop Zoomies?”

One night, as I drowsily read my latest rom-com novel before falling asleep, our cat, Bea, came streaking out of the litter box as if the Hounds from Hell were following her in hot pursuit.

Poop zoomies. It has always made me chuckle to see my cat pinch a loaf, then fly away from the litter box like she’s afraid the turds will grow legs and try to chase her down.

I wondered the cause of this and decided to research it. I also asked a few cats why they thought they run like greased lightening after a good dump. Continue reading “Why Does My Cat Get the “Poop Zoomies?””

Am I Psychic or Psychotic?

What does being psychic and being psychotic have in common? Both involve seeing and hearing phenomena that no one else is experiencing. So how do you know when you have a serious mental health problem vs. simply being psychic?   Goodness knows I had absolutely no clue what was happening to me when I was shockingly introduced to the World of My Psychic Abilities at the age of 13. 

I write about this today because I grew up with a grandma who eventually suffered severe psychosis. It scared the crap out of me, and I swore up one side and down the other that I would do anything and everything to never be like her. There were barely any meds available to manage the condition, and she wouldn’t have taken them anyway. 

As my intuition slowly but surely evolved on its merry own time in my teens and 20’s, I never worried that I was like grandma. I didn’t think I was receiving omens from a knickknack by the front door, I had no voice telling me to kill people, and my premonitions showed up randomly. I didn’t have periods of time where it was nonstop, then it quit, like grandma’s psychosis did. She was extremely paranoid and pissed when she was psychotic, and I never, ever felt anything remotely similar. I write this today due to the sheer volume of people who have over the years shared with me they were scared they were developing a severe mental illness. 

My social work job was evaluating people seeking psychiatric services at a mental health hospital. I interviewed them, diagnosed their symptoms, then assigned appropriate level of treatment and connected them with the necessary service. 

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Scared to See a Psychic?

“I’m Afraid the You’ll Tell Me Something Bad!!”

During a friendly conversation with 2 guys years ago, I shared that part of my occupation was being a psychic medium.  One of the men immediately and loudly bellowed, “I’m afraid you’ll tell me something bad if I come see you!” The poor guy! I understood his concern and reassured him that I only share information in a positive manner, and that I wouldn’t do anything like tell him someone he loved would die the next day, or anything wildly upsetting like that. You may be wondering how I know I won’t receive such tidings. I have my methods……You may also think that perhaps someone could benefit from knowing such knowledge, and I am going to share why I block it. 

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How to Help Your Pet Be Their Absolute Happiest

This is the last in a series of blogs sharing surprising information I have learned in the 13+ years that I have been a professional animal communicator.  Most of us think that our pets can act very human. That is truer than you would ever realize!

Read on to discover what the animals have told me to help me realize that they are more like us than I ever suspected; they’re merely a different species with their own species-specific behavior. 

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Help! My Cat Pees Outside the Box!

This is my second in a series of blogs sharing unexpected information I have learned as a professional animal communicator. Some of this you may know, but some may be news to you. I know some of it was surprising to me!

Cats pottying outside the box is probably the number one reason people contact me. I understand the frustration of it myself because our cat, Bea, had become proficient at expressing herself in this manner since we moved into our condo a year ago. In this blog, I will share what I have learned about helping cats use only the box, through both my own experiences, and working with lots of clients.

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What Your Pet Needs that You Don’t Know About….

This is first in a series of blogs about aspects of animal care that most humans either simply don’t consider, or know anything about. I never gave a thought to any of these concepts before I became a communicator, and I educate many clients about these topics now. None of it is anything you can buy for your friend.

The first one I will share is one of the most critically vital actions you can take to keep your pet their healthiest and happiest.

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Can Psychics Accurately Predict the Future?

Here is my answer: Yes and no. And frankly, my dear, I don’t care about predicting the future!

(All the following information I share is from my own experience and education. Someone else may have a totally opposing point of view. That’s all good! Take what works for you, and leave the rest behind. TRIGGER ALERT: discussion of rape in this blog, but no grody details or whatnot.)

I spoke with a few other psychics who have been in this occupation for several years prior to penning this blog, and they all agreed that life is a combo platter of destiny and free will. It isn’t exclusively one or the other that determines the events of your life. It’s what you do with what happens to you, and it’s how you create opportunities in your own life via manifestation techniques, prayer, or whatever method blows your skirt up.  You and the Universe drive the bus together, so to speak. 

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