Am I Psychic or Psychotic?

What does being psychic and being psychotic have in common? Both involve seeing and hearing phenomena that no one else is experiencing. So how do you know when you have a serious mental health problem vs. simply being psychic?   Goodness knows I had absolutely no clue what was happening to me when I was shockingly introduced to the World of My Psychic Abilities at the age of 13. 

I write about this today because I grew up with a grandma who eventually suffered severe psychosis. It scared the crap out of me, and I swore up one side and down the other that I would do anything and everything to never be like her. There were barely any meds available to manage the condition, and she wouldn’t have taken them anyway. 

As my intuition slowly but surely evolved on its merry own time in my teens and 20’s, I never worried that I was like grandma. I didn’t think I was receiving omens from a knickknack by the front door, I had no voice telling me to kill people, and my premonitions showed up randomly. I didn’t have periods of time where it was nonstop, then it quit, like grandma’s psychosis did. She was extremely paranoid and pissed when she was psychotic, and I never, ever felt anything remotely similar. I write this today due to the sheer volume of people who have over the years shared with me they were scared they were developing a severe mental illness. 

My social work job was evaluating people seeking psychiatric services at a mental health hospital. I interviewed them, diagnosed their symptoms, then assigned appropriate level of treatment and connected them with the necessary service. 

Being psychic myself helped me feel a lot more confident about discerning the difference between psychosis and psychic ability. I shudder to think about how many people have been slapped on antipsychotic meds when they didn’t need them at all. 

Also, If someone has no experience with psychosis at all, it can be highly alarming to suddenly begin sensing spirits, have premonitions, or randomly know information without having a tangible way of receiving it. 

So today I share this information in hopes that someone out there in the ethers might see this and feel comforted that what they are sensing is entirely within the range of average human experience. There are a bajillion psychic people out there—in my opinion, it’s an entirely common situation that humans are intuitive/psychic. It is how we are wired. 

To ensure that the information I share is correct, I briefly discussed this topic with my own counselor. My memory grows rather flabby as I near 60, and I figured getting some backup here would be swell. 

Heather shared that as a licensed mental health counselor, one factor she considers is the person’s belief systems and religious background. Being upset about being cursed, talking with deceased ancestors, etc. are perfectly normal in some societies and countries. If this is how you have been raised to think, then it is expected that you might believe that. 

Other considerations include:

Are command voices (voices telling someone to hurt self or others) present? Then it is likely psychosis unless an entity is attached to the person.

Is the person paranoid, thinking the FBI is following them, someone is breaking into their home and nicking  the back of their dishes, or  scratching their car? This points toward psychosis. 

Are the experiences causing acute distress for both the person and those around them (if they are sharing what is happening)? This one can be present with both psychosis and being psychic. 

People with psychosis often hear audible voices with their physical ears or feel an actual physical touch on their skin. With psychic ability, voices are typically noticed more internally, like it is actually “in their head.” I routinely feel spirits touching me, but it registers as very faint and barely discernible. It isn’t like when I scratch my leg. This being said, it doesn’t mean that actually hearing a voice with your physical ears automatically makes you psychotic. All these criteria, and a lot more, should be used during an evaluation. 

The final difference Heather mentioned is that in many mental disorders, psychosis presents in cycles. It is present 24-7 for periods of time, like days or weeks. Psychic information varies in the length of time it is present, depending on the person’s level of psychic development and so many other factors. 

If you feel you are perhaps experiencing psychosis, you can go to your nearest emergency room for a psychiatric evaluation. If your abilities are developing, find a qualified, experienced psychic who knows their stuff to help you. Being psychic is a fabulous way of living that can decrease stress and increase joy and security, if you know how to work with it. Otherwise, it can be like a bull on cocaine in a china shop. 

I do mentor individuals in psychic development, and I have been offering readings professionally since 2005. Feel free to email/call/text me for more info! 317-440-8783 or annie@laughingsoul.org.

Scared to See a Psychic?

“I’m Afraid the You’ll Tell Me Something Bad!!”

During a friendly conversation with 2 guys years ago, I shared that part of my occupation was being a psychic medium.  One of the men immediately and loudly bellowed, “I’m afraid you’ll tell me something bad if I come see you!” The poor guy! I understood his concern and reassured him that I only share information in a positive manner, and that I wouldn’t do anything like tell him someone he loved would die the next day, or anything wildly upsetting like that. You may be wondering how I know I won’t receive such tidings. I have my methods……You may also think that perhaps someone could benefit from knowing such knowledge, and I am going to share why I block it. 

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What Happens When You Ignore Your Spirit Guides? A Tale of Woe

Yep, that is what will happen. You will get a tale of woe, all for you to kick yourself in the ass about. “Why didn’t I listen?” Indeed–why didn’t you? We will explore that question. But for now, onto my tale of woe.

Let us harken back to earlier this frosty winter, my friends. I USED to have an ankle-length down coat which zipped up clear to underneath my nose. So toasty warm it was, so durable, and so expensive (but I got it for a steal at Macy’s-we are talking a veritable mere pittance.) I was able to withstand frigid temperatures for long periods as I took care of my petsitting dogs, and it allowed me to wear shorts to the gym in the winter.  Bonus point! Continue reading “What Happens When You Ignore Your Spirit Guides? A Tale of Woe”

Ya Think Life Would Be Easier…..

Indeed. Seems like life would be a hell of a lot easier, smoother, etc and whatnot when a gal (or dude) can read energy. You know what to do! You hear guidance, as if perhaps Archangel Michael is blasting directions through a megaphone into your head. No willy nillying around, trying to make up your mind about your situation. Oh no, because you read energy!

It isn’t that simple. Like most counselors and other helping professionals, we are fabulous at doling out advice, but can’t always figure out what to do for ourselves. Some intuitives and psychics can’t even pick up information for themselves. I can, but at times, my attachment to the outcome boogers everything up. Why? Two words–attachment and should.

I have written endlessly about the nastiness of the words should and attachment. Both can cause a pecker load of trouble. Focusing on what we deem to be the best outcome, without allowing that another could be equally as beneficial, is indeed angst producing. And should. Doing what we think others want us to do, or what is the “right” thing to do, but not really taking into account what feels best,usually  winds up pooping on our parade in the long run.

So if making a decision is causing you trouble, do what I plan on doing. Write about it at length, talk to your friends and family, perhaps go see a counselor or psychic (or both), and then sit still with yourself and your version of spirit guides, God, Allah, whomever. It may take a while, but eventually, the answer will show itself.

How to Spot a Scamming Psychic

The other day I happened to spot this ad whilst I was out tra la la-ing about. Warning bells screeched in my mind as I finished reading it, and  I shook my head in disgust.  I knew that this would be the basis for a blog informing readers how to know when you have a stinker of a psychic in front of you.

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Gosh darn, where do I even begin with this? (Scratches head.)

I shall commence with the phrase “wishes and prayers answered.” Dear reader, only YOU, yes, YOU, can answer your own wishes and prayers. Yes, you can meditate, chant, pray, positively vibrate, etc., but you must do something in order for anything to occur–even if that something is merely a thought coupled with intention. Thoughts are some powerful little boogers, but that is a topic for another day. It boils down to the fact that absolutely no other human is going to answer your wishes and prayers in a way that absolves you of the responsibility of running your own show.

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Part 2 of the Jocular Post, “How Do You Deal with Skeptics?”

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So Wowsy Woosy!!! I had a fabulous conversation today and was simply compelled to write about it.

I asked a lady what she thought prompted folks to be skeptical about animal communication, psychic ability, etc. etc. blah blah blah. Her answer was amazeballs! I had NEVER even considered it for two seconds! It explained so much to me.

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As Count Chocula says, “Don’t Be Afraid!”

I finally got to have lunch on Wednesday with a super groovy chick I haven’t seen in forever. We  settled in at our patio table to await the arrival of our vittles, and I was busy wondering how she applied her liquid eyeliner so well. (The fashionista in me never sleeps–the ol’ broad is always on the lookout for cool clothes, sexy shoes, fun make up, etc.) My eyeliner musings were interrupted by: ” I’m afraid of you. I ‘m worried that you’re reading me.” One of the things I like about my pal is that she has massive lady balls the size of the Russian tundra. She doesn’t mince words. I was so glad she voiced her concern. I am sure many others may have that same thought as well when we meet. Allow me to put your mind at ease by sharing what I told her.

Hell no, I am not readin’ your ass when we meet. GAAHHHH!! Who would want all that information? I do not want to know the color of your undies, or if you are going commando that day. I do not want to know that you are mad enough at your partner to throttle his/her fanny because the damn slob won’t pick up after themselves. I do NOT want to know how much you are coveting your neighbor’s ass–literally. If any sexual information randomly meanders into my noodle, I slam the “CANCEL” button down on my intuitive control panel ASAP and yell, “TMI! TMI!” Could you just imagine how bat sh*t crazy I would be if I had the “crystal ball” turned on at all times? Hokey smokes! Talk about information overload.

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